2 Things That Will Halt Your Success In Life
The most limiting thing we have in our life is our mind and at the same time it is the most limitless thing that we have and it will ultimately determine our level of success
It is important to look at how our mind can limit or halt our success and how we can change that, sometimes by simply having an awareness.
“The only thing that stops us from achieving the success in life that we desire is the story that we have to why we can’t have it” I first heard this from Tony Robbins and it made a lot of sense.
Our Story can also be called our excuses. When we let go of our story or our excuses then what is left…a space and potential to create results.
Nature and the universe abhors a vacuum, so think about it…if we rid ourself of our story of why we can’t, which is our excuses, then that space has to be filled with something, which will be action and results, right!
Excuses are actually just a symptom so to get rid of them we must go further back to what creates the excuses in the first place. We create excuses out of fear.
The two Primary Fears for creating excuses is the fear of rejection and the fear of failure. This is what stops most people from doing most things.
Now let’s look at the fear of failure and the fear of rejection and see where these two irrational fears come from. They are irrational because it is not like you are going to be torn apart by hounds or locked in irons in a dungeon, right!
Rejection may look like someone saying “No” to you and failure may be people looking down on you because you didn’t make the grade, or wasted time and energy on a project that didn’t work out. It is good to put things in perspective. You can handle these things, right!
Now lets look deeper than these fears of rejection and failure and where they come from. Well when we go even deeper we find the two most fundamental fears that we have as humans.
The fear of not being enough
The fear of not being loved
The fear of not being loved is the deeper fear of rejection and the fear of not being enough is the deeper fear of failure.
Realise the truth that you are love and you are enough because you are everything.
“I am love and I am enough because I am everything”
To realise this on deeper and deeper levels is to reaffirm it as often as possible. There is also a powerful process in NLP called Parts Integration that can have quite profound effects with releasing these limiting fears and balancing our perceptions.
Success in life can come down to releasing these 2 fears as much as posssible and not being controlled by them anymore.
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